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πŸ“ celebrating national strawberry day πŸ“

Happy πŸ“#NationalStrawberryDay!πŸ“ Here’s Rader with the speech therapist who helped him pronounce his R's, and the flowerpot he made for her featuring his R-sounds story character, Robert the #StrawberryπŸ“. #speechtherapy #speechtherapists #speechtherapistsrock #marioshirt pic.twitter.com/bQbZ30Yuwk

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 27, 2019
Wednesday 02.27.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

examining the complexities behind suicide

Food for thought from psychologist and author @jessebering about the complexities behind #suicide. https://t.co/DF9wEPTYfc via @slate #suicideprevention #mentalhealth #mentalillness

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 26, 2019
Tuesday 02.26.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

bowser takes over

https://t.co/POoz2z2H1R@thetruebowser

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 25, 2019
Monday 02.25.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

Try grief support emails

Back in October, I posted a link for free daily grief support emails. I have just found another such service I want to share with you as well. The difference is, each of these comes with a little 'homework' to help if you're feeling stuck. Here's the day 1 example:

Grief is a journey; a most-difficult, heart-wrenching, gut-churning journey. It's not a place you would ask to go, but everyone who has ever loved someone will make this journey at some point in their life.

There is no preparation for this journey. We all enter into it the first time completely unprepared emotionally, spiritually and mentally. Even when we've spent months or years watching a loved one's health deteriorate and tell ourselves to believe we are ready for the finality of their death ... we're not.

Activity: Find a pad of paper, a blank journal, or simply a notebook and a pen you love to use – something that writes smoothly and effortlessly. Take time and write a letter to the loved one who has died, tell them all that you love and appreciate about your experience of them sharing all the positive memories you can remember.

What you’ll learn from this exercise is the recognition of your resiliency and the gift the person was in your life – you are strong and you will survive this latest loss. Embrace the process, don’t resist it. You will discover that sorrow moves into joy and love will keep your memories alive forever.

Sunday 02.24.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

MHA: 110 years of lifesaving advocacy

Mental Health America is celebrating 110 years of #mentalhealth advocacy. Congratulations and thank you for your lifesaving work! @MentalHealthAm @MHAGreenville https://t.co/R2kJ9kW5Aj

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 23, 2019
Saturday 02.23.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

the uselessness of "call me if you need anything"

I love how Megan Devine (@refugeingrief) demystifies how to help a #grieving friend! Hint: saying "Call me if you need anything" is not helpful! See the whole comic here: https://t.co/rwtnoN51LU#griefcomic #griefsupport pic.twitter.com/yZDCXIouL3

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 22, 2019
Friday 02.22.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

some impressive multitasking

Just because Rader loved #speedcubing (#rubikscube), here's a follow-up to yesterday's Logic videos: @Logic301 solving a Rubik's Cube while freestyling. https://t.co/wODkEF4suM via @YouTube

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 21, 2019
Thursday 02.21.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

1-800-273-8255

This article and song are not new, but both have a lot to say. The videos are worth watching, too. #suicideprevention https://t.co/aGhJk81VWN

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 20, 2019
Wednesday 02.20.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

on our instagram: pirate portrait

Seven years ago, we all dressed up and my sister and brother-in-law had a fantastic costume wedding that was also the #Asheville #MardiGras parade, over which they presided as King and Queen. Here's 10-year-old Rader the pirate flanked by other revelers in a cool triptych by Renè Treece Photography (now #luxehousephotographic) from #AshevilleMardiGras 2012. #MardiGrasWedding #pirate #fairytalewedding @avlmardigras @ashevillemardigras

25 Likes, 0 Comments - @raderwardfoundation on Instagram: "Seven years ago, we all dressed up and my sister and brother-in-law had a fantastic costume wedding..."

Tuesday 02.19.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

Mario Monday: dominoes!

#MarioMonday! Marvel at this #dominoes setup from @dominoking0197​. There's a whole world of #SuperMario dominoes videos on YouTube. I'm amazed at the attention to detail and the amount of work that goes into a project like this. https://t.co/FpQ4VBapKD via @YouTube #Mario

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 18, 2019
Monday 02.18.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

wondering what remains

Here's another piece of my writing from January a year ago when I first participated in the writing course from Refuge In Grief. The prompt for this one was about wondering what remains when the death of a loved one takes so much away.

"I don't want to write about whether not counting days means I should worry that I'm forgetting him. I don't want to let the thoughts in of whether I'm grieving 'right' or falling apart enough or whatever the fact that I'm going on living might mean about my love or my fitness for parenting or the coldness of my heart. Unbreakable? I don't want to write about those things or think about those things. They're always dancing around the shadowy edges, just out of sight. Terrifying things that want to devour me. ..."

Read the rest, and other essays and poems, on the "writing my grief” page.


Sunday 02.17.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

vote for seize the awkward to win shorty award

Seize the Awkward is a campaign that helps you figure out how to push through to have that awkward conversation with someone when you're concerned about their mental health. It's a partnership among the Ad Council, American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, and The Jed Foundation - JED.

Do you know what you would say in such a situation? If not, check out seizetheawkward.org, and then vote below. They deserve this Shorty Award!

Fact, Seize the Awkward should win a #ShortyAwards. Fact, you can still vote. https://t.co/0hHWRP7zuY @jedfoundation @afspnational @adcouncil #SeizeTheAwkward #suicideprevention #BeThe1To #askthequestion

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 16, 2019
Saturday 02.16.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

try this easy online mental health screening

Yesterday I met with @MHAGreenville to see how we might be able to help each other. One of the great services @MentalHealthAm offers is easy online #mentalhealth screening. Check it out! https://t.co/xmk6zJDUm5 pic.twitter.com/KlTB4TQFao

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 15, 2019
Friday 02.15.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

read all about it: mental health america

I was excited this morning to meet with Mental Health America of Greenville County! They're doing important work in our community and I look forward to figuring out how the foundation and I can help. I'll share more about them soon, but in the meantime, here's where you can learn more.

MHAGC's website: http://www.mhagc.org/
Twitter: @MHAGreenville
Instagram: @mentalhealthamerica_greenville
Facebook: MHAGreenvilleCounty

The national organization's website:
http://www.mentalhealthamerica.net/
Twitter: @MentalHealthAm
Instagram: @mentalhealthamerica
Facebook: Mental Health America

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Thursday 02.14.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

love and loss: say his name

Thinking a lot about #loveandloss this Valentine's week. Please never be afraid to say the name of a lost loved one. It means everything to me when I get a chance to hear what Rader meant to someone else. Thanks, @TCFofUSA. #childloss #suicideloss #sayhisname #musictomyears pic.twitter.com/PTYXc6Dn8F

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 13, 2019
Wednesday 02.13.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

check out this valentine's grief comic

Thanks, @refugeingrief, for this insightful #griefcomic. #griefsupport #mentalhealth #acknowledgement https://t.co/fOygDNrAX3

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 12, 2019
Tuesday 02.12.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

stop-motion paper magic Mario Monday!

#MarioMonday! This #stopmotion #SuperMarioBros animation using drawings and paper cutouts is amazing! I know Rader would have appreciated this and would have enjoyed working on making a #Mario project like it. #Nintendo #SuperMario https://t.co/cqgnSdTzLe

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 11, 2019

Here's a little more information about how it was done. https://t.co/Z5Hmo1oVma

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 11, 2019
Monday 02.11.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

you are worthy

In case you needed a reminder today. #mentalhealth #suicideprevention #griefsupport #youareworthy https://t.co/NTseTSNKtm

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 10, 2019
Sunday 02.10.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

Prince Ea puts traditional education on trial

This six-minute video was shared by my favorite Montessori teacher, Samantha Vejay, with the following comment:

"'Students may be 20% of the population, but they are 100% of the future.' Thank you for the appropriate shout out to Montessori!"

The Rader Ward Foundation was formed to give life-changing opportunities to students by increasing the accessibility of #Montessori education in our community. #YeahThatGreenville #AlternativeEducation @PrinceEa https://t.co/nhHER6TjxR via @YouTube

β€” Rader Ward Foundation (@RaderWardFound) February 9, 2019
Saturday 02.09.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 

heads together aims to end mental health stigma

From Lost Got Found on Facebook:

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Prince Harry, a mental health advocate, stated in an article, β€œLosing my mum at the age of 12, and therefore shutting down all of my emotions for the last 20 years, had a quite serious effect on not only my personal life, but my work as well... The experience I have had is that once you start talking about it, you realize that actually you’re part of quite a big club. The goal is to normalize the conversation to the point where anyone can sit down and have a coffee and just go β€˜you know what, I’ve had a really bad day, can I just tell about it?’ People are scared to talk about it, but they should be scared about not talking about it."
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A campaign, Heads Together, was jointly created by The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge and Prince Harry, with an aim to end the mental health stigma in the UK. Check it out.

Friday 02.08.19
Posted by Susan Ward
 
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